Is it all that? I know SHE is, but...
Self awareness is this...
Self awareness is that...
Self awareness is a communication superpower...
OK, but HOW do I improve my self awareness AND become a better communicator???
SO GLAD YOU ASKED random stranger who happened to stumble on my little corner of the interwebs.😁
Here's how:
1. Emotion Journal 📓
⇢ Daily, write down 3 emotions you felt
⇢ Note what triggered each emotion
⇢ Reflect on how you responded
2. Personality Style Quiz 🧠
⇢ Take a REPUTABLE personality test (e.g., MBTI, Big Five) aka NOT on FB
⇢ Note your strengths and potential blind spots
⇢ Consider how your style impacts your communication
3. Feedback Loop 🔁
⇢ Ask 3 TRUSTED colleagues for honest feedback
⇢ Focus on how you communicate and interact
⇢ Look for patterns in their responses
4. Mindfulness Minutes ⏱️
⇢ Set 3 alarms throughout your day
⇢ When they go off, pause and check in with yourself
⇢ Notice your current emotional state and energy level
5. Reaction Reflection 🤔
⇢ After important conversations, ask yourself:
- How did I feel during this interaction?
- Did my emotions influence my responses?
- What could I have done differently?
6. Communication Style Analysis 🗣️
⇢ Record yourself in a meeting or presentation
⇢ Watch it back, noting your tone, body language, and word choice
⇢ Identify areas for improvement
YOUR MISSION, should you choose to accept it: Choose ONE of these and commit to it for the next 7 days.
Remember, self-awareness isn't about perfection—it's about progress. As you develop this skill, you'll become a more effective communicator.